Cooking for Nookie™

The couples most often discussed on talk shows are the ones with deep issues since there is something to talk about. But what about the normal couple out there that doesn’t have any deep issues?  They are relatively happy, maybe content is a better word, but stuck in their routine. They go to work, come home, eat dinner, make sure the kids are taken care of and watch their shows. (Pause for YAWN) These are the same couples who started off in a jack rabbit race completely motivated by primal urges and couldn’t keep their hands off each other. But somehow once the coupling began, sex got put on the “to do” list similar to taking out the trash and walking the dog.

So, what happened? We don’t want the passion to fade, after all nookie is one of the most important ingredients to coupling, it is the anchor to the intimacy we share. Nonetheless, it is a question that has plagued many psychologists and authors I have read. But without true insight, the mainstream solution to the couple’s decelerated sex life focuses solely on the bedroom. But solving the bedroom symptom doesn’t pay attention to the most significant detail that a woman’s sexual desire is in her head not in bed.

 The cycle seems to take place in every relationship, we can sense the warning signs so we attempt to fix it by buying a little lingerie, take a vacation (vacation nookie is the best) or buy a book about 365 days of great sexual positions that no one ever finishes. But after few attempts of recreating the lost passion–and in the face of defeat–people seem to accept the following questions as the natural evolution of coupling –

Men: “What happened? In the beginning we had sex several times a day, it was incredible. Now I’m lucky if we can squeeze it in weekly. I try. I took her out to her favorite restaurant and bought her flowers, but that only lasted one day. I have no idea what she wants from me.”

Women: “I have two kids, a stressful job, a family member in the hospital and a house to take care of – when it is time for bed, I just want to sleep. Why doesn’t he understand that?”

Scenarios aside, every male who has been coupled has made the statement, “I have no idea what she wants from me.” And every woman has exclaimed, “Why doesn’t he understand?” Cooking for Nookie doesn’t delve into the psychological depths of understanding gender needs, there are plenty of books already in print covering that subject.  Cooking for Nookie takes the simpler “fast food” approach to problem solving. In a very uncomplicated, easy to read format, Cooking for Nookie focuses on the day to day relationships (whether the pair is married or just coupled) and gives the simple answer to what changed and provides easy solutions to help a man get a woman out of her head and back into bed.

Each section attempts to bring a different kind of lovin’ from the oven. It begins by sharing the why behind getting a woman out of her head and includes general tips and tricks that can be used every day. Then Cooking for Nookie shows you how to create the entire mood or scene, including every imaginable detail of meal planning, preparation, flower ideas and their meanings, as well as a bonus round of “thoughtful” gift ideas. It will also show you some of the simplest “gesture” meals to show her you appreciate her. It is written in concise and simple instructions to make the process of being thoughtful, completely thoughtless. Passion doesn’t have to go away and Cooking for Nookie is the perfect tool to show you how.