Comments on: The Best Version of Yourself http://cookingfornookie.wordpress.com/2009/08/22/the-best-version-of-yourself/ Get Her Out of Her Head . . . .and Into Bed Sat, 24 Jul 2010 11:59:06 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Daphne Koteras http://cookingfornookie.wordpress.com/2009/08/22/the-best-version-of-yourself/#comment-248 Daphne Koteras Thu, 21 Jan 2010 22:28:34 +0000 http://blog.cookingfornookie.com/?p=368#comment-248 Do you actually take the time to answer all these people's comments? If so I just wanted to ask how long did it take to your site the way that it is? What has inspired you to set up your blog and where do you get all your content from? Do you actually take the time to answer all these people’s comments? If so I just wanted to ask how long did it take to your site the way that it is? What has inspired you to set up your blog and where do you get all your content from?

]]> By: Dsheray http://cookingfornookie.wordpress.com/2009/08/22/the-best-version-of-yourself/#comment-108 Dsheray Tue, 13 Oct 2009 21:07:08 +0000 http://blog.cookingfornookie.com/?p=368#comment-108 This is so true and is something that is hard to except. It is important to love yourself for yourself. A woman has to want to be that woman. Thank you! This is so true and is something that is hard to except. It is important to love yourself for yourself. A woman has to want to be that woman. Thank you!

]]> By: Thinkies http://cookingfornookie.wordpress.com/2009/08/22/the-best-version-of-yourself/#comment-87 Thinkies Thu, 03 Sep 2009 15:31:17 +0000 http://blog.cookingfornookie.com/?p=368#comment-87 Being the best you can be for YOU as well as your family and partner is the best gift anyone can give themselves and those they love. Aside from the attractiveness issue, health is an important factor as is self esteem and quality of life. Being the best you can be for YOU as well as your family and partner is the best gift anyone can give themselves and those they love. Aside from the attractiveness issue, health is an important factor as is self esteem and quality of life.

]]> By: Michelle http://cookingfornookie.wordpress.com/2009/08/22/the-best-version-of-yourself/#comment-82 Michelle Tue, 01 Sep 2009 18:22:07 +0000 http://blog.cookingfornookie.com/?p=368#comment-82 I think this a really good point! People should take the other person out of it and look at it as a personal pride issue, because it really is just about taking care of yourself - wanting to look good so that you can feel good, for you. Thanks for the post. I think this a really good point! People should take the other person out of it and look at it as a personal pride issue, because it really is just about taking care of yourself – wanting to look good so that you can feel good, for you. Thanks for the post.

]]> By: Michael - Mike Zen - Stagg http://cookingfornookie.wordpress.com/2009/08/22/the-best-version-of-yourself/#comment-67 Michael - Mike Zen - Stagg Sat, 22 Aug 2009 15:29:18 +0000 http://blog.cookingfornookie.com/?p=368#comment-67 @Muse The truth is just that...the TRUTH. Guys are WAAAY more likely to "fall off" than women are IMHO. So ladies - don't let us! LOL @Muse

The truth is just that…the TRUTH. Guys are WAAAY more likely to “fall off” than women are IMHO. So ladies – don’t let us! LOL

]]> By: Muse http://cookingfornookie.wordpress.com/2009/08/22/the-best-version-of-yourself/#comment-66 Muse Sat, 22 Aug 2009 15:22:44 +0000 http://blog.cookingfornookie.com/?p=368#comment-66 Mike...glad to hear this coming from a guy. Wahoo!! Mike…glad to hear this coming from a guy. Wahoo!!

]]> By: Michael - Mike Zen - Stagg http://cookingfornookie.wordpress.com/2009/08/22/the-best-version-of-yourself/#comment-65 Michael - Mike Zen - Stagg Sat, 22 Aug 2009 13:47:31 +0000 http://blog.cookingfornookie.com/?p=368#comment-65 The doors swings both ways on this subject. While a woman may be more emotional than visual that doesn't mean the guy gets to let himself go. Eventually, the situation will become emotional when she decides that she spends all the time she can to look pretty while he turns into a couch potato. Coming from a different angle both parties owe it to the other to stay in the best physical condition they can in order to be around for each other for years to come. I'm talking health here really more so than appearance. As Loria has hinted to this is a self esteem issue too. It sounds like the wife has, somewhere along the line, stop caring because of some underlying reason. That's where I think he should look. When did she start letting herself slip? What was happening at that time? Is it something he/she/they can work on (I'll answer this - Yes!) to get her to feeling better about herself and wanting to dress better? I wish him well on getting to the bottom of this so he and wifey can get back to some good nookie! :) The doors swings both ways on this subject. While a woman may be more emotional than visual that doesn’t mean the guy gets to let himself go. Eventually, the situation will become emotional when she decides that she spends all the time she can to look pretty while he turns into a couch potato.

Coming from a different angle both parties owe it to the other to stay in the best physical condition they can in order to be around for each other for years to come. I’m talking health here really more so than appearance.

As Loria has hinted to this is a self esteem issue too. It sounds like the wife has, somewhere along the line, stop caring because of some underlying reason. That’s where I think he should look. When did she start letting herself slip? What was happening at that time? Is it something he/she/they can work on (I’ll answer this – Yes!) to get her to feeling better about herself and wanting to dress better?

I wish him well on getting to the bottom of this so he and wifey can get back to some good nookie! :)

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